Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Pregnancy Week 39

Here we are at 39 Weeks and 0 days
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39 Week updates:
- I can not believe my pregnancy is almost over! No more baby updates, no more surprise jabs from bean and hopefully no more burning throat, swollen body parts  or annoying facebook comments of people telling me what I can and can not do while pregnant or "once I'm a mommy". Most annoying thing ever! That and people being surprised at how far along I am really bugged me. It has always been the same conversation with strangers. I am ready so I don't know why they feel I should be less close to delivery. There are just some people who have to comment on everything and I try really hard to ignore them! I don't even want to talk to some people because they think they know everything. My life, my body, my baby. I wish people would get a handle on their own weight and addictions before they tell me how to be healthy and safe by their standards. END RANT!

- One mylar balloon from the baby shower finally fell - a month later!

- I hated this weeks appointment! Not only are they repatative, I have no more questions left and would rather have my baby than drag my ass there! Anyways, they did the first cervical check and I could barely handle it. It was so painful, she really didnt get much of a feel, but it is softening. It's not a truly scientific prediction of when labor will begin anyways. But she was very surprised at how low he was getting - very good! She also called him wild when he was wiggling and she was getting his heartbeat. Yes, I think he will be very wild! Then we just talked about the induction process. If my due date passes, they will send me to the hospital over night and I believe give me some kind of medication to work on my cervix and then as long as that is going well, they will give me pitocin in the morning. Here's hoping we don't have to do that, but I am prepared for it. I don't see him being easy!

- Swelling at this point has been horrible and I feel very sick and achy like the flu for a few hours every morning. Usually Jimmy takes a swim and massages my feet in the pool before he goes to work. It takes a few hours for me to be able to move my legs, hands, and feet everyday!

- I am writing this update at exactly 39 weeks. Yesterday I had a lot of consistent braxton hicks contractions and they were ten minutes apart up until this morning. Very few today and I'm not timing them, but I have had constant dull period cramping all day. I am hoping this means Bean will be coming soon on his own and I wont have to be induced next week! I've been having bh contractions for a few days. Everything feels like its pressing up which is just my uterus tightening and hardening. They are usually accompanied by the flushing feeling. They aren't very painful at all, but a little uncomfy. Sometimes I have a little more pain, it started at the top of my uterus, but now if there's a painful feeling it is very low, which is good in my opinion  Also from the front it literally feels and looks like Bean might just slide right down my body! He is so low!

- I loved having cocoa butter in a stick form - so much less greasy and oily. I used this one all up and am so glad to not have to smell cocoa butter!

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Baby Buys:
Had to get these for $1. For the races when he is much bigger!
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Also, bath toys!
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Sun hat my mom got him. She also bought a set of play yard sheets my mom insisted I have!
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Got another free collage!
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Kind of sad this is my last month that will look like this. I used this month at a glance just for the purpose of tracking my pregnancy in weeks and had some dr appointment, class and ultrasound stickers throughout the months.I loved ticking off the days and counting down to whatever was planned next, even just turning another week along.

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Monday, May 13, 2013

Our Hospital Bags

Lots of research went into what we were going to bring. It's a big thing on Pinterest and Youtube. I only packed things that I think we will use or will make the whole time I'm there easier. There were some things like slippers that I almost bought, but $15 on a nice pair of slippers felt like a waste since I would never wear them again at home. I bought flip flops and socks instead.  Anything that I end up needing one of my family members can grab either from home or from the Kmart next to the hospital. No biggie!

I will start with Bean's bag. His bag holds all my nursing things, his clothes, and some things for him just in case. I know the hospital will supply a lot of things for him too.
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- My breastfeeding guide, which I will likely reference and study up on! So nervous for breastfeeding!

- Pacifier and case. I heard this is a must for the 30 minute ride home so incase we lose any they give us, I know I have one. I may not even use pacifiers until he has a good latch, if at all, but we will see. I would rather have it than not.

- Baby on Board window cling we got at our shower. This may be the only time we use it, not sure if we will be able to see it with the tint either.

- Wipe case with one newborn diaper and travel wipes. Would feel better having this, especially on way home. I do not want him to sit in poop - ever!

- The white and black lump of fabric is my breastfeeding cover.

- His outfits are all in labeled bags with matching hat, mittens, and bib. Who knows if he will wear them, but I packed the blue and tan outfit for coming home in 2 sizes, an orange basketball / Orlando Magic one for visitors, and a blue pj set for nighttime. I don't know how to dress an umbilical cord or circumcision so we will see!

- Two blankets. One with cars for some cute photos and one with doggy prints. The one with doggy prints is the one we are going to get his scent all over and bring to Bella so she can get used to his scent so he is not brand new to her the moment we get home.

- One Burp Cloth - packed just in case the hospital ones may be gross. I heard they are re-used.

- A baseball for his hand print!

- The breastfeeding supplies I am bringing are soothies (ice packs), lanolin and disposable breastpads. Not sure if I will use them but bringing them anyways. I want to have everything possible to help me feed him!

My hospital Bag:
We can start with the miscellaneous stuff:
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- Electronics in front pocket: Headphones, lap top case to toss the lap top in, camera with its charger, batteries and USB.

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- It's a boy mints, chocolate and bubblegum cigars.

- Gum and sugarless hard candies for when I can't actually eat solids during labor.

- Singles and quarters for vending machines

- Phase ten card game

Now my stuff: 
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- Brand new flip flops, a reusable shopping bag to take things home with us, two pairs of socks, plenty of after delivery granny panties and pads, a bag for dirty clothes and a plastic one for anything that gets soiled, two soft comfy bras, my nightgown and matching pillow case.

And toiletries! 
I packed what I would normally pack for any trip, if I don't use it, I don't use it but normally these are the things I would need.
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My vitamins, hair ties, hair bands, hair clips, hair brush, chapstick, lotions (heard it helps during labor), whisps, hand sanitizers.
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Tooth brush, tooth paste, flossers, tongue brush, cup, deodorant  mouth wash, shampoo and conditioner, shower cap, body wash, razor, soap, face wash, make up wipes, feminine wipes (would I use these after delivery I'm wondering?) and facial moisturizer.
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Daddy's Hospital Bag
Currently he has his camera equipment, a special Daddy shirt I got him for the hospital and his toiletries. I had this bag embroidered for him because he didn't have one whenever we went to shows or races. Plus, I don't have a middle name so I'm a sucker for putting his three initials on....everything.
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I also filled it with brand new travel items. His are pretty basic and less interesting - he's not giving birth - so I didn't take photos.
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Last minute packing list
Here are the two lists I have sticking out of the diaper bag for when we have to go to the hospital since we use these things everyday
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& what Jimmy needs to grab
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So that's about it. I think we are so ready to meet this guy!

Saturday, May 11, 2013

Pregnancy Week 38

Here we all are at 37 weeks and 6 days
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38 Week Updates:
- We finally installed our car seat base and figured out how to work it. Not that it was very difficult! We put the base in Jimmy's car because he has four doors and a big roomy back seat. Plus, I am not going to drive myself home from the hospital, so it makes sense to put the base in his car at least for now. I made a couple bad bass jokes to Jimmy. He hasn't quite gotten over it. HA HA.

- There's a lot of talk that before labor, the baby slows down, but bean is NOT. He is super active still. I hope that doesn't mean he will be in there longer! The other day it felt like he wasn't still for more than an hour combined!

- No more fruit cravings! Now my appetite has been kinda blah, can't decide what I want and I get hungry slower so by the time I realize I'm hungry I'm starving and nauseous. Very first trimester!

- I can't cross my legs anymore! Siting is so awkward! I made a joke that that's what got me into this mess to begin with. I thought it was funny......

- I had another OB appointment. It's pretty routine now and there have never been many 'updates'. People always ask me how my appointments go as if something would happen out of the ordinary, but they are incredibly routine and basic. I go in, they take my blood pressure and weight, I leave them a urine sample, she comes in and measures my fundal height and listens to the heartbeat and while this is going on I have my phone opened to notes and am asking whatever questions I have. I have been in and out of there in 15 minutes before. There's really never anything new, unless they were to find something wrong. I  don't really care to know and they don't mention numbers for my blood pressure, weight, heartbeat or fundal height.  At this visit we paid in full for his circumcision, which he will have done at the hospital when he is born and that was about it. I go back every week now and they will check for changes in my cervix next week.

- I feel him very very low. Tiny tiny movements and nudges against my bladder and what feels like a nerve that conects to my urethra that make me think I'm going to pee myself! Not often, but sometimes.  I feel like he will literally fall out, but then he comes back up to my right rib and causes major DRAGON THROAT! He just pushes everything up up up.

- I don't feel any bh contractions or anything unsual at all. I've been paying extra attention to every little pain or twinge. There were a couple days in a row where I had short moments where I thought I had period cramps. Still have two weeks until due date, so I'm not expecting anything but for him to be LATE!

- I've finished watching all the people I've been following's pregnancy vlogs, all my books are read and now I'm just rereading the highlighted parts in my breastfeeding guide. This time is so STALE! There's no more preparation to be done.

- Still swelling! I woke up the other night and my hands were so swollen and painful I couldnt open a water bottle. The extra water SUCKS!

- I've been telling Jimmy on most days that it could be the last day without Bean and without having to do diapers! I am pretty sure our due date will come and go but I can't help but wish he would come early!

- We finally had our maternity photos taken. Talk about waiting until the last minute! I was dreading it and hate my big fat cheeks and extra chin, but the photos came out amazing and we had a really fun time. I am playing with the idea of some hospital photos....

Nursery: 
We hung curtains in our room finally! Bella ate my last ones and the new identical ones have been sitting for at least a year. Nothing special or exciting. Everything is all ready!

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Hospital Bags:
All packed! I have everything in a big suitcase and his diaper bag on top right by the door. Sticking out of his diaper bag is a last minute packing list that has everything else we need to grab like electronics and clothes.

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Baby Buys:
Batteries for his swing and a tube of Vaseline for his circumcision. How boring! He has more than he needs at this point. I cant even go into the baby isles!

For a little head!
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Video:
Last week i meant to put a video of his hiccups, but I posted the one that was mostly little movements. Here's the one where you can clearly see his little baby hiccups



Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Pregnancy Weeks 35, 36 & 37

Here we are at 37 weeks exactly
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My little egg from the front!
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Week 35 Updates:
- My hair texture has really changed. It feels like the individual strands are thicker and textured differently.Also, my body hair, which was barely growing at all, has started growing super fast! I knew it was too good to last!

 - I usually do at least a little bit of yoga stretches everyday. I start to get those legs cramps everyone has told me about if I miss a few days in a row. They start to get tight for a moment, but never make it to a leg cramp, thankfully, because those are supposed to be really painful. At 35 weeks, my body is not letting me get a good stretch in at all! I am so much more flexible, but bean is in the way and I feel like I'm doing nothing - no burn!

- We finally decided on his middle name!

- Following up on last weeks updates, I still am dreaming vividly, but all those weird back and ligament pains are gone! Thank god, I thought I would feel that bad for the next few weeks. No real discomfort or pain, but I think my hands and feet are swelling. Sometimes they feel a little funny! I also had to take my little adjuster piece out of my engagement ring so it fits bigger.

- Cravings have been fruit! Mainly pineapple.

- This week I am really starting to be over the pregnancy, not because of discomfort, but because I am ready to move on! I miss jeans and shorts and going to the gym and really working out. I am ready to meet him and just MOVE ON to being a mom!

- Now that the shower is over, I am focusing on getting ready for the hospital. I think my packing lists are complete, so I've been gathering stuff in his diaper bags to take with us. 

- Not pregnancy related, but I  paid for my next class. I'm taking a criminal law class July 1st - August 9. I am pretty sure as long as I don't get PPD, that I will be able to do it. Bean might only be a month old, but I'm familiar with the teacher and his online set-up. As long as I can work on it three to four days a week, I will have it done. I'm determined to get my classes done!

36 Week Updates:
- Pregnancy is getting tough - I am swelling! Not a lot, but enough, in my hands and feet. Usually walking brings it on and when I wake up in the middle of the night I can barely walk, but it goes away once I start moving around in the morning. Then sometimes my face will flush hot hot hot for a few minutes, but not turn red or feel hot to the touch. So I went to my appointment thinking for sure that they would find high blood pressure or protein in my urine, but they didn't and what I have is just another normal part of pregnancy. Besides the horrible exhaustion in my first 18 weeks of pregnancy, this is the worst symptom, because I can't walk very much without swelling up. So frustrating! I don't have any other uncomfortable pregnancy symptoms, so I am going to consider myself lucky. I am moving slower and feel less mobile, but a lot of people have it a lot worse! My midwife did tell me to swim and float and that "hot flashiness" was just hormones. We also did the strep B test, which I am not concerned with because it's normal and treatable if I do have the bacteria. I also asked her when the office will step in if I go past 40 weeks, and she said they wont let me go past 41 weeks. So Bean should be here in May! I am very excited to not go to 42 weeks, because I am SO ready to move on from pregnancy.

- It is my grandma's 74th birthday and we got her a heart-shaped lucky bamboo plant, added some rocks and found a nice vase at Hobby Lobby. It looks so cute, I almost want to keep it for myself! We got the bamboo at the flea market and the little old asian lady was so excited she asked to touch my baby for good luck! It was so cute! She even gave us free plant food because I was going to be a mommy. Ha ha.
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- I've had a lot of people ask me if I've dropped / engaged yet. He has always been very low and my belly is more long and oval like an egg than round like a ball. I have been feeling a lot of small movements very very low, but I don't think he has dropped yet. I've been paying extra attention to every little movement, waiting for a bh contraction! I want some sort of sign my body is getting ready for labor! I still have one month to go, and may never get braxton hicks, but I am very anxious to get this goin!

- Cravings have been pineapple, watermelon and baby oranges. I have to buy a new box of cuties every 3 days! I think it has something to do with how juicy the fruits are, because I also have been eating fruit snacks in tropical fruit flavors.

37 Week Updates:
- This week I still have the occasional swelling in my hands, but now my feet hurt from random arch pain in the am and swelling in the middle of the night! Any daytime swelling is definitely walking related at this point, but it hasn't stopped me from getting out, just from exercising! I don't feel comfortable pushing myself at this point and will resume myfitnesspal and runkeeper sometime post delivery! I wont even drive or go out by myself, I am too paranoid!

- I have been tired more, but not tired enough to go to sleep or stay asleep much longer than usual. There have been a few days where I closed the shade and tried to sleep, but haven't had a successful nap. It's not pure exhaustion like in the beginning.

- I had my hair cut and colored and she made it feel amazing! I said it felt weird, and she described it as coarse and said a lot of it will probably fall out after I have bean. Yay!

- The hospital bags are all complete just have to throw them into a suitcase! I had to get after delivery panties- it was horrible! I was mortified! I am not looking forward to the state of  'down there' after delivery. Icepacks? Ugh!

Daddy's Letter to Bean (35 weeks):
Hi baby Marco!  Man I am excited to see you!!!  I can’t wait for you to be here!  It has been a few weeks since I wrote last and lots has happened.  I got a new car, and one mommy likes too (thank goodness)!!!  I love it.  It has plenty of room for your stroller and has a big back seat for you and mom.  The Magic job is going great and I love being a part of them.  I was offered an Assistant General  Manager job at Advanced Auto Parts and I am taking it, I have to tell my boss tomorrow that I am stepping down.  I am not really looking forward to that because I love my job and my co-workers, but this will be good for our family and I want to be able to give you and your mom a great life and give you whatever you need and take you cool places.  This is something you will learn you have to do when you are older.  Always strive to do your best and be the best at whatever you do.  We also had your baby shower and got some cool stuff!  I cant wait to buy you toys so I have a reason to play!  We went to a rib fest and an air show too, it was fun, but it will be even better with you too!  Well bean that’s about all for now, until next time.  Love you, Daddy

Bella:
Here is our only baby for now! She is very silly and tries to sit on bean and I have to move really quick and she slides off him.
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Always makes herself comfy after the bed is made. Do you know how hard it is for me to make the bed at 9 months pregnant!

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Cuddling on beanie
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Nursery Updates:
We have everything we need for Bean minus a baby blue beanie, so everything is in its place just waiting for Bean. This is what we are using for his bassinet. I can't say how long I will use it for, but it's an all in one piece. I've talked about it before. This is the view from our bed. I think I'm going to move it right next to our bed. I just have a feeling I will want to keep a close eye on him and peek at him all day. I have his projector, boppy pillow, and swing out because we will use those from the beginning.
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Here's the view by the door.You can see we have a lot of his toiletry items in there and our packed hospital bags.
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I organized this drawer of his with these cute baby blue baskets. I have newborn and 0-3 months in one drawer and in the 2nd drawer I have 3 months and 3-6 months. After the first few weeks of his life he will outgrow the newborn, so that will make more room. Every other size is in labeled plastic bins in the garage. We have a huge tower of baby boy boxes since I saved Q's clothes from 12m-4t!
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Alphabet Wall Updates:
We went to the flea market this weekend and had an X Made. We decided we aren't going to paint or hang the alphabet letters yet. If we aren't going to live here for very long it doesn't make sense to paint and once the crib is up after the pack and play we will see if we need more furniture and hang the letters once everything is in its place.
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Baby Shower Updates:
36 Weeks: Our baby shower was earlier this month and I've been posting about the different elements. Now we've just been working on writing thank yous and packaging up some of the leftover candy and favors to send to our far away friends and family that sent their love to baby Marco.

37 Weeks: All the thank yous have been sent out and all the baby shower related posts have been posted. The last and final Baby shower update is on our insane magic air balloons. I have NEVER had balloons last more than 24 hours, ever. The balloons lasted two weeks after the shower and the mylar ones are still floating! It is amazing and I love having them around.

Here's what the thank yous look like. 
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Preserving the fondant cake topper
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Hospital Bag 
36 Weeks: I've been focusing on getting our bags ready for the hospital. We bought all the toiletries and travel toiletry bags, I got Jimmy a special Daddy shirt, and have been getting things like sport / nursing bras, soothies and pads ready for breastfeeding. Beans bag is done! His outfits are all coordinated and wrapped together. We are also bringing a spare blanket for Bella to sniff before we bring him home. Everything I ordered for newborn photos, his it's a boy cigars and my matching nightie and pillow case for the hospital are all in. Only a few loose ends to tie up!

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Here is his coming home outfit, we have it in two sizes just in case he is bigger or it's too tight on umbilical cord.
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Here's another hospital outfit. He will probably wear this when we have visitors.
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Said nightie and pillow case. They always look so nice in photos! I got the nightie instead of delivery gown for visitors and photos. I don't plan on being seen as much in my delivery gown and those for sure get ruined!
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Baby Buys
35 Weeks: This week was nuts because we had our shower last week and were so thankful to receive so many gifts. Now that it's past, I was able to figure out what still needed to be bought. I picked up a few random things like bibs, bath items, mittens and receiving blankets.

37 Weeks: His crib and mattress! I don't have a photo, because we aren't putting it up until he outgrows his bassinet.

Here's a Magic bib and burp cloth I bought for Jimmy to use with Bean.
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Here comes trouble outfit I bought at Babies R Us. I love the dog!
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We are big space and alien fans.
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I registered for a baby bottle cooler, but then took it off and never bought it. Then I saw this lunch box at Ross for $7.99! Nope, too cute to not buy. It's a great size for bottles and one day snacks.
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I am already picking out his outfit for 4th of July. 
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V-neck and dinos - YES!
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Life Before Bean:
When Jimmy worked at JCP he had mostly morning hours because he worked in the cashroom, but now that he's still under the wing of another employer at AAP, he has a lot of 1-9:30 shifts. He is up at by 6 am, so he prefers the early shifts, but I love the closing shifts. We can spend time with each other before he goes to work and we usually make breakfast and even tho he misses dinner, we can still catch up at night, watch a little tv and go to sleep. I like it better. Here's a video of how nice it was one morning after breakfast before work.
Bean's hiccups and squirms!

Our Baby Shower Posts

Here are all the links to our shower posts!







I also have details about the planning process on each of my pregnancy updates (see left side bar under topics - Pregnancy) and in this post titled Baby Shower Prep